My 5th 49th.
Mood:
celebratory
Now Playing: They Say It's Your Birthday.
Thursday, Nov. 13th was another Nihongo evening language lesson. Quing-san (from China) and I both share the same birthdate (Nov. 14th) so I brought homemade brownies to class. We each got a candle on a brownie to blow out. So started the birthday celebrations.
Friday, Nov. 14th was a regular school day, but I started it out by getting up early and baking a loaf of homemade pumpkin bread to bring to work. I figure that you gotta celebrate yourself, eh? Also got a call from my folks which was a nice surprise. The pumpkin bread wouldn't have happened without the effort of Connie and David downstairs. I don't know where they found the canned pumpkin but I am so glad. We will have a pumpkin pie on Thanksgiving weekend too because of their shopping prowess! So - anyway - back to the celebrations. After school, it is a 1/2 hour bicycle ride back to the apartment to change and freshen up, then back to the train station to Sanomiya. I met my new found friend, Didik (Japanese language class) and his girlfriend and his new found friend and Japanese tutor, Troy. We all headed out on train and subway to find a little restaurant that I wanted to try. I have been to two festivals where these India folks had a booth serving their restaurant specialties. I fell in love with their Tandoori chicken and samosas. Of course, I got lost at the train station for a 1/2 hour before I found the others and almost gave up and went back home.
Lucky that I didn't. Tabla was decorated with a Happy Birthday banner and Prem-san had made us a special dinner. For 2,000 yen each (which is very cheap) we feasted on spiced cashews, tandoori chicken, curried mushrooms and a red curry chicken dish, nan, as well as wine and a great India beer. We finished up with an iced mango cream, very delicious (oiishi). I got presents even and Didik brought two delicious cakes that we were too full to eat so we split the cakes in four pieces and took it home to savor the next day.
What a funny sight we must have been. A drunk on the train just stared and stared at us until we started talking to him. There we sat. Didik, 27, is from Bali and definitely looks NOT Japanese. He is speaking Thai to his girlfriend, 32, who is definitely Japanese but they communicate in Thai because Didik doesn't know much Japanese. Then Troy, 19, is over 6 feet tall and definitely from Australia but he is speaking Japanese. Then there's me, I have no idea about the Thai but am trying my best to try some broken Nihongo. The drunk thought I was someone's mother but couldn't figure out who! Hah, now that makes me feel old but then I could actually be their mother! Oh, dear. Anyway, we had a great time. They graciously didn't try to take me to a singles bar (that would have been too depressing for this old girl). We walked through crowded streets, visited a Shinto shrine and got our fortunes and tied them to a tree for good luck, had coffee and got home about midnight. This will be a birthday to remember.
Saturday, Nov. 15th I slept in. Well, I am learning to pace myself finally. Made myself pancakes, this is my favorite "relax" breakfast for a weekend morning. Then I'm back on the train to the outskirts of Kyoto to meet my Japanese friends and meditation buddies. We meet once a month to study Sri Easwaran's words of wisdom and to meditate together. This has been a real blessing to have a satsang group here in Japan to continue my meditation practices with fellow aspirants. David and Connie had leant me a cell phone because they were going to be in Kyoto on a tour while I was meditating. We connected at a train station in Kyoto around 5pm (thanks to cell phones - I guess they aren't all bad) and the next birthday celebration began.
We did some shopping at Kurawamachi mall. This is about 3 streets wide and goes on for blocks. This is like an outdoor market but the stalls are actually open store fronts and the streets are covered by a giant skylight above. Very convenient when it's raining. David enjoyed some Kirin beer in a pub while Connie and I did "last minute" Xmas shopping. Connie is leaving for CA next week and, boy, are we going to miss her. Then we were off to find a restaurant. We found a really nice one on the fourth floor of the Hankyu Dept. store (restaurants are usually found on the 4th floor in department stores). Grocery stores are always in the basement. Jewelry and clothing on the 1st and 2nd floors and so on. This restaurant served a "Viking" dinner which is basically a smorgasboard. We discovered that all-you-can-eat-places are very popular and that Japanese people can really pack away the food. As soon as a platter was brought out it was moments before the delicacies were gone. We got very good at beating the mob to get some really yummy treats.
Then we took the subway to JR Station to view the Xmas tree, huge, and listen to Xmas music - in English, of course. Just like home. We got there too late and the bakeries were closed so Connie and I missed out on our dessert but we were pretty full anyway. It takes about an hour to get back to Nishinomiya. It's funny but when I head back "home" sometimes I slip and say Spokane. Weird.
Posted by maryinjapan
at 9:57 PM
Updated: Thursday, 27 November 2003 3:57 PM